What I am going to present
is not complex. It can pose difficulties, however, because it
relies upon a willingness to challenge our own beliefs. Typically
we hold on tightly to beliefs and ideas that we held for so much of
our lives. When we challenge our own beliefs, it can be
frightening because we may fear losing that which we have come to
rely upon. Regardless of desire to change our lives for the
better, there is resistance to change. Look at whatever
resistance you encounter, see what is causing it and you will find
what it is that you believe that is being challenged. The
resistance you notice is a good thing. It gives you the
opportunity understand yourself better. It results because
there is an existing belief, or set of beliefs, that you have
adopted that you may want to look at further. There is
nothing to fear because you get to choose what you will
believe.
By looking at our resistance
we discover what is going on within our own minds. We can see
where our ideas differ from those we are hearing. We can
compare ideas and discover just why we are wanting to keep our
existing ideas intact. If we are holding on to beliefs out of
fear, then at least we can see that. If we discover that we
prefer our beliefs because they inspire us somehow, then we now
better understand our own inner workings. We can assess just
how much what we hear differs from what we currently believe.
In all cases, we are the winner. Beliefs worth believing will
be supported and beliefs that we see could use some revision are
now evident.
There is an ironic facet
involved. It is our own belief system that discourages us
from discovering new ways of thinking and being. In essence,
our current beliefs can hinder us from discovering new ways of
believing. But since there is no way to remain as you are
forever, it’s really only a minor issue. Change is
inevitable. We get to lead that change or be passive.
Life will show us all what is best for us one way or the
other. I’ve just found that when I challenge my own
ideas, life can work its magic with less drama and upheaval and is
much more enjoyable and rewarding.
